Posted By admin on September 8, 2009

By Mey Lia

There is a tendency for the people to make a mistake in viewing the relationship between male and female. They always think if the two people with different gender go out together, it means that they are dating. It is not always true. It can be just a friend-relationship.

There is a big difference between friendliness and romance relationship between man and woman. Toward the one that they feel in love with, people tend to act differently and try to become perfect. While, toward their friend, they just become who they are and act as usual. So, if you do not want to make anybody else look at your relationship with your partner wrongly, you must make a clear distinction in your behavior.

Don’t do the thing that you can only do with your love one, like kissing or holding hand, with your male/female friend. This is the best way, and this may help you avoiding the misunderstanding between you and your friend or your lover.

If you feel that the friend that you go with, especially if he/she is not the one that you get attracted to, has a certain feeling to you, don’t be hesitated to make step backward. Tell your feeling honestly and let her/him know your situation. This will help you maintaining your friendship and keeping your romance relationship stay longer.