Friends and Lover

Posted By admin on July 2, 2009

By Mey Lia

The beauty of life is to love someone and to be loved by someone. A lot of people longing for peace, love and happiness, including myself. With love we will be happy as love will bring happiness in our life, that’s what I always think start from the beginning in my life.

Sometimes I’m questioning myself, when I made my partner happy, should I feel happy too? That perception can keep you standing on your way to happiness as these are some of the dangerous myths in life. When we try to please others through out our lives, it’s not a good thing though. As when we fail to please someone, then people will naturally become bitter, hateful and resentful. So we have to resist this matter as now I know that happiness and love is like an energy, when we shared, it will bring out the best result.

Well, now just take a moment and think about a joke that you have shared with your friend. Whatever jokes that you have ever shared or heard. Now remember, when both of you laugh, your laughter will make you feel good, am I right? That’s what I mean with happiness and love is like an energy since it will make us feeling good. And when we’re happy, it’s so easy for us to attract a lot of love as it is reflected in out every activity.

Between love and happiness, there is a strong bond. Yet when you meet a strangers or someone you don’t know, but when you smile to them, they will always return your charming smile. That’s the best reflection of self-happiness. But when you’re angry and not happy, I’m sure that people will helplessly glum at you. Do you think that life is too hard so that it’s so difficult and it will make us so struggling to be happy?

When things are moving so swiftly for us, amazingly we will subconsciously wait for the storm to come and I tend to attribute this to our expectations of struggles and problems. Yet life was meant to be easy with the natural flow of happiness in our lives but pessimism interferes. You should be careful of your expectations as what your mind expects is what you will get.

Fear is a great thing that will stand on the way of love and happiness when the romantic relationship is going as it should, lovers panic and wait for a thunderstorm. In a matter of romantic relationship, fear will stop you from following your heart. Fear, love and relationship can’t exist together in a human heart, that’s the thing you should know about.

You should less your worry and choose to be happy in your life. You will experience a break through in love and happiness when you open your heart to happiness. If you have a positive relationship with yourself for sure you will have a successful romantic relationships. Just be who you are, and no need to impress others by getting out of your way, you should enjoy and relax your life.

It’s wrong if you have perception that love and happiness is your goal that you have to attain in the future, because in everyday of your life, you already have love and happiness as long as you can enjoy your life with your loved one. Life is beautiful when you can live your life to the fullest.