Friends and Lover

Posted By admin on May 26, 2009

What women want?

By Mey Lia

What do women want exactly from a man? Maybe some of you ever questioned about that. In my opinion, as a woman, if someone asking me those question, then probably I will answer that I want more attention from my man, I want to be loved, to be taken care of, but actually that’s not the only thing that women want from their man.

As we might know that there are basically a lot of different things between man and woman, as a woman we often complaint why he doesn’t understand me, why he didn’t care with me, why he’s so ignorance and still a lot of things to be complained, but in another side man always and often times think that why women are so complicated and difficult to be understood.

Basically most women are sensitive and they like attention and compliment from her couple. So you have to compliment your women if you want to get their attention and win her heart and love. How to compliment women and make a good impression on her, here are some of my opinions for you to make a compliment to your wives or to a woman you just started dating.

Be Honest and Sincere

Women like if you’re honest and sincere. Please don’t make up stories just to make her happy instead of saying the truth and figure it out what’s in your opinion about whatever things that made her attractive, such as things that impressed you on her or things that make you like her. And most of all, women like to hearing when someone compliment her about their inner beauty.

Be A Good Listener

You probably know that most women like to talk and share about their feeling. So when she’s trying to share or tell you a story, try to be a good listener for her. Don’t interrupt when she’s in the middle of sharing something with you, because she might think that you are not interesting with her story and then she will think that she can’t relate with you.

Try to understand them

As I’ve mentioned that most women are sensitive. They will appreciate if you can understand how they feel, yet I know that most men are not so sensitive as mostly men always think logically, but women mostly use her sense and feeling. Try to understand how they feel even though sometimes it’s hard for you to understand them, but women will feel that they’re loved when you can understand how she feels.

Treating them well

Women love to be treated well by their couple. They like to be treated as if she’s a queen. Don’t treat a woman like junk, say something nice and don’t be rude to her, because you have to remember again that women are sensitive. They will like it even when you just do a very small thing to her just by giving her a small present or attention and she’ll feel so happy.

Sex is not everything

For some women, sex is not everything and she will appreciate more if men get attracted on her not just because of sex. So, don’t expose or mention too much things that will lead into sex matter, especially if you’re just starting dating your girl or just met her and not knowing her for quite some times, because they’ll think negative when you drive the communication into sex.

Make her feel comfortable

Women will love to be with someone who can make them feel comfortable. She will really love it so much if you can make her feel so comfortable when she’s with you. So you have to make effort to make something that will make her feel so ease and happy, such as make her laugh and she will fall in love with you.